I would go for the body and the 18-105vr - average to good price on that. If you have the cash left over, adding the 55-300 wouldn't be a bad deal. You would have a great range and a good beginner kit.
It seems you are moving away from the 18-105 - any reason?
I would add a 35mm 1.8 & a 50mm 1.8 after you have the full range you want to shoot. If you are not going to be doing long outdoor shots much, skip the 55-300 for now and go the 35mm (which is a 50 equiv. for DX.)
Overlap in lenses in the mid range on dx (50mm-100mm) is actually helpful since that is your more ideal portrait length. Who wants to change lenses that much.
You're right that for my usage, I would be better of with short range lens than 55-200. I can start with good short range lens and build system from there.